Guilty feeling when devoting care to themselves; as a substitute they’re over caring for others. Low vanity and uncompassionate judgment of others and themselves, so family members attempt to obscure pain by being controlling and disrespectful. 11) Using youngsters as weapons against each other for revenge perspective. Previous dysfunctional families all the time have a poisonous impact other family generations. One or both dad and mom are deliberately or unintentionally delicate dad and mom . 6) Responsibilities given are appropriate to their age, flexible and forgiving to a baby’s errors.